
My Rating: 🍪🍪🍪.5
Genre: True Crime
There is No Ethan explores the experiences of three women who are catfished by Ethan Schuman, a man on a dating website who appears at first to be charming, committed, and emotionally intelligent. As he throws excuse after excuse at each of them for why he can’t meet them, they independently begin to question his authenticity.
The manipulation tactics used by ‘Ethan’ to pit these women against each other and make them question themselves was truly wild. It is hard for me to fathom continuing to communicate with someone for as long as they did when they keep making excuses for why they can’t meet me, but it speaks to how very convincing this catfish must have been and how deeply entwined in his manipulation tactics these women were.
I found it hard to stop reading because I was so eager to find out the truth and to see ‘Ethan’ get taken down. I unequivocally rooted for these women to band together and uncover the truth. I was also soooo horrified by the lack of accountability once the truth was uncovered, which again, I believe speaks to the power this individual is able to assume over people and just how convincing they must be.
It was frustrating to me how long these women continued talking to Ethan and letting him impact their lives, which definitely affected my feelings towards the book. That said, it was the truth of their experiences and made for a fascinating read.
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