
My Rating: 🍪🍪🍪🍪
Genre: Memoir
I have no idea how this memoir got on my radar, but once I started it, it was hard to put down. Belle Burden unflinchingly details her relationship with her husband, from its whirlwind beginning through, decades later, his sudden decision to leave her and their children shortly after the pandemic began.
Through her writing, Belle does a wonderful job of reconstructing her relationship so the reader understands how her husband showed up and presented over the years and the life they built together. It allowed me to understand her shock and her yearning for answers. It made me wonder if writing this served as a way for her to work through everything.
Belle also shares candidly things she wishes she had done differently during her marriage, and makes a strong case for financial literacy and staying involved in your finances even if your partner mostly “handles” them. She highlights different people’s reactions to her husband’s choice and how they reflect societal norms.
The extent of Belle’s privilege that was included was a little offputting to me, although I guess I’d rather she be candid about it than not. It just made me think about how much worse a situation like this could be for someone without her kind of upbringing and wealth, which I don’t think was her point, but in a way maybe including this made its own additional point.
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